Before the date. After the conversation.

Keep your hopes beside what you actually hear.

Complete the first half before a date or call. Return to the second half afterwards, while the conversation is fresh.

BEFORE

My honest starting point.

The relationship I hope to buildTime and attention I can offerWhat I am still working out

AFTER

What they said they want

Something we seem to shareSomething I still need to ask

CHOOSE

Another conversation, a specific question or a kind closing

An intention is a direction. Exclusivity, a visit or a larger commitment needs a separate agreement.